I logged onto OKCupid for the first time in forever this evening and saw that I had a message. Usually, messages get sent to my e-mail, too, so I was a little confused until I saw that it was just someone saving my profile as a favorite. Curious, I went to his profile to see what I could see.
The second paragraph of his "My self-summary" section threw me off for a second because it was a little odd:
***Other sections below elaborate on intent and talk a little about me. Please read the last half to get to know me a bit better..
A couple of paragraphs later, it continues with
Again. Please read the entire profile. This is a great forum to get it all out there so to speak. You can't say the things I am saying here when you first meet a girl. That said... read the end to get to know me a bit better outside of the 'top' of this profile.
O...kay. Yes, I'm going to read the whole profile, but why are you so insistent, dude?
When we go into the bedroom to fuck this is what you should expect:
OH! Well, that was...er...unexpected, but please, tell me what I should expect when we...go into the bedroom to fuck.
All discipline will be enforced in the bedroom... outside the bedroom I am very laid back... but would love to explore a D/s relationship.. ;) I enjoy rough kinky sex. I am very controlling in bed and am looking for a total service whore in bed. Outside of bed... good times always.
He would love to "explore" a D/s relationship? Much of the profile goes on with exactly how the woman should expect to be spanked, do as she's told, and perform as a "total whore." This goes on for...well...if I printed it out, I'd say it'd take up a good two pages.
You should expect to be fucked up your ass if you can accommodate me. If you can not your ass will be teased and fingered a bit. It will be nice if we get along and get close/tested to come in your ass every now and then. You will also be expected to take cum on your face and lips.
Nothing but class this one.
But, really, I don't see anything morally or ethically or even sexually wrong with BDSM; it's more that his profile switches from the above to stuff like this...
I am very skilled in mathematics and computer sciences.
...then back to this...
*You should be very submissive in the bedroom. You should be clean and intelligent.
...without so much as a how's your father.
And then after his several paragraph description of how, exactly, she's going to take it, he hardly bothers to fill out any of the other fields. For example, his "I'm really good at" section?
I'm kinda complicated with all the things I do to make a living. All totally legal :) ... I may spread myself a bit thin... but I make good cash. Word.
Word indeed, sir. I think, however, that I shall pass.