I wanted to make a post. One fell into my lap.
This guy asked me for my AIM name right away. And I, uncharacteristically, gave it to him.
mrpositive: you have been on that site for 5 years
mrpositive: damn I just found it
mypositive meet alot of people on there?
me: not really, no.
mrpositive: y not
me: not sure. just don't.
mrpositive: so does that mean u haven't had a bf in over 5 years
Now, let's be clear: One can have a profile on OKCupid and not be single. So this is a marginally silly question.
mrpositive: thats shitty
me: I'm fine with it.
mrpositive: you don't want a bf
me: I don't want to settle, and I haven't met anyone I find worthy of a relationship.
mrpositive: it hasn't been 5 years for sex has it
I despise when men ask me about my sex life ten minutes into a conversation. There are tons of people that I've known for a very long time who don't know the details (for these purposes, we'll disregard the fact that there aren't many details to tell). So sorry, random dude. You're not getting them, either.
me: and what if it has?
mrpositive: that would really suck it's hasn't been close to that for me and I miss it
me: I don't really care about it.
mrpositive: about sex?
mrpositive: when was the last time
me: does it matter?
me: then you don't need to know.
Because we're not having sex. Got it?
mrpositive: alright well you seem pretty negative
me: about what?
me: I...don't get that at all. what did I say that's negative?
Seriously, I'm just being honest. I'm apparently negative because I don't like sex. That's what I'm getting from this. I actually think it's a sign of being fairly upbeat if one can handle living without it. Just sayin'.
mrpositive: now i guess i understand why u havent met anyone
OH NO YOU DID NOT.
me: don't be a dick. if you're going to say shit like that, back it up.
mrpositive: you have been nothing but negative
me: but I asked you what I said and you wouldn't answer. that means you have no reason to say that. therefore... yeah, bye.
Whatever. I'm negative, you're lazy. Life goes on. But you're also a douche. So there.
(And yeah, I made a totally nerdy joke about negativity in the title. I'm just that awesome.)